Look everywhere and see what's happening, kids desperately asking for answer on why they have been cheated or why their partner didn't appreciate their efforts. Most people will probably see it in a way that it's the other people's fault, but not for me. Not for someone who sees the root of this problem.
First rule of relationship is to love yourself more than your partner. The simplest analogy here is that you can't shoot bullets more than what your mag can hold. Same with love. You won't be able to show love more than how you love yourself. Sometimes it may seem possible to love someone more than you love yourself, but how sure are you that it's real love? What if it's a desperation to fill those empty spaces in you and make yourself feel better?
Same rule applies for respect, especially to girls. If you're not showing respect to yourself, then how can you expect others to respect you as well? The same level of respect that you give in yourself will always be the maximum amount of respect that others can give to you.
Love is not that magical. It doesn't appear on someone's heart out of nowhere. It still has a logical part where only those who can love will deserve a real love.
