Look everywhere and see what's happening, kids desperately asking for answer on why they have been cheated or why their partner didn't appreciate their efforts. Most people will probably see it in a way that it's the other people's fault, but not for me. Not for someone who sees the root of this problem.

First rule of relationship is to love yourself more than your partner. The simplest analogy here is that you can't shoot bullets more than what your mag can hold. Same with love. You won't be able to show love more than how you love yourself. Sometimes it may seem possible to love someone more than you love yourself, but how sure are you that it's real love? What if it's a desperation to fill those empty spaces in you and make yourself feel better?

Same rule applies for respect, especially to girls. If you're not showing respect to yourself, then how can you expect others to respect you as well? The same level of respect that you give in yourself will always be the maximum amount of respect that others can give to you.

Love is not that magical. It doesn't appear on someone's heart out of nowhere. It still has a logical part where only those who can love will deserve a real love.

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  1. “If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” ― RuPaul

    Wow, makasabi naman tong nanggagaya at nagre-rephrase ng quotes si msiii, samantalang ikaw ganun rin pala.. wag mong sabihing coincidence yan, kasi kung ganun man, eh ang kapal na rin ng mukha mong sabihin na nire-rephrase ni msii yung mga quotes niya...
    One more thing, masyadong naka generalize yung topic mo dude, hindi lahat ng youth kasing landi ng pinagsasabi mo pati ng ibang fantards mo. kung makasabi kayong kabataan ang sumisira sa literatura. "Before you criticize the younger generation, just remember who raised them." -Anonymous

    Oh, wala akong kinakampihan sa inyong dalawa, pareho lang kayong nangongopya ng quotes, tsaka kung maka-criticize ka naman, parang 'di ka nagkakamali. Patunayan mo muna kasing mas magaling ka bago ka magpaka-social critic.. Kung si MSIII, self proclaimed writer, eh ikaw, self proclaimed critic? Edi WOW!!!

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  2. O, eto pa, "If you want respect, give respect." --unknown

    Mas may sense pa to. eh pano ka nga ba rerespetuhin kung ikaw mismo, hindi marunong rumespeto? Diba? But you can't say that i dont respect others like you, isipin mo muna yung dahilan kung bakit.. uulitin ko, if you want respect, give respect. Well, mukha naman di mo na kelangan ng respect..

    Ini-straight to the point ko na, eh ganun ka rin naman sa amin ee, ^_^

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    1. Marcelo Santos IV26 November 2014 at 00:11

      I'm not even asking for your respect, I'd rather earn the respect of the people who knows me than a random anonymous guy in the internet.

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